Increasingly, people choose to celebrate their life and funerals with their own family, friends and Loved ones – to say goodbye and have one last special time together before it’s too late.
Living funerals allow love to be shared, laughs to be had and opportunities for generations to celebrate life together; to reminisce, to involve the younger generations who may be excluded from the funeral itself.
Designing and Preparing your Own Funeral
When you know you are going to die, you can choose to design your own send-off, your way and in your style.
Design your Own Funeral Service removes the struggle grieving families and friends face as they prepare your funeral, and to say their final goodbyes.
With this last act of love, you take the strain off your Loved ones, support them in their grief, and to say what you want said, in your own words.
A Listening Ear to Help You Through
Knowing you’re going to die only becomes a reality when you actually face death. A reality that can quite literally tear your life’s very fabric apart and dump you into a pit of confusion, and unfathomable darkness.
At such times, you can make use of a listening ear to share about your confusion, hurt, fears or to explore the simple “not knowing” with someone not a Loved one.
You being listened to, with neither prejudice nor judgement, allows you to talk through when needs discussing to get clarity on. In turn, this opportunity to share and get clarity will ease your communication with Loved ones for what you need to say has been discussed with an impartial person.
Services for the Dying
The time of dying is a complex and difficult time. It however, can be turned on its head and made into a time of special experiences.
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Within you, you have remarkable resources to deal with any time of transition (change or loss) that affects your life.
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Being 35 – 65 [in midlife] is a potent time of challenge when you become increasingly aware of mortality and death – of parents, of family – even your own… Parents age, children grow, things change and life demands so much…
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End of Life & Living Funerals
Each individual is unique and deserves their opportunity to celebrate their life whilst hale of mind, if not hale in body. To lift a glass with loved ones, to smile, to touch, to hug, to have one last dance. To laugh; to cry.
Potential solution: Living funerals or “awake wakes” are special, well-held spaces for one at end of life to say their farewells in person. For family and friends to make memories; share love; to remember the beauty of life, even as life is fading.
You get to celebrate your life together unrestricted by chapel times and death getting in the way. Click here for more information.
Dealing with Death
At death, the person we knew is no more. Losing their personality changes everything and forms much of the grief you may face – you may longer hold them, care for them, or experience their presence for they are silent. But your love is not.
Cultural beliefs may include don’t discuss “it” for it may be contagious; ignore it; fear it; don’t acknowledge it. If you follow these ideas, then death can’t overwhelm you…
These old customs encourage keeping silent about the painful, frightening things of life. Whilst no one may listen to how you feel, they will tell you should deal with your emotions, to fix your mind, thoughts and feelings. Question is: how would you like to feel?
Potential solution: When you choose to release bottled up emotions without judgement, you’ll feel cared for and released from the darkness of pain.
This can be achieved by regaining perspective of your life through airing what you’re thinking and feeling about your grief. With a person detached from the rest of your world in a safe, confidential environment. Click here for more information.
There are many ways to design or host a funeral. For some people, tradition is essential; for others, a service without the sombre, formalised rituals suits them as a preference.
Many modern funerals are personalised with a blend of tradition with modern ritual that fits the one who has died, and their family. Whether this is religious, secular, with or without spirituality.
Potential solution: You require a completely different way of doing a funeral. One that encompasses the one who has died; their and your beliefs and rituals; one that fulfils your needs as you say farewell in whatever way works for you. For you have designed and created a funeral you’ll cherish and value by working with a professional. Click here for more information.
Grief & Bereavement
Grief – the experience of loss and how you deal with it – is very individual to you.
Loss comes in many forms; the end of a life, the end of a relationship, the end of a role at work, significant life changes such as moving home or a health crisis…
One description of grief is “heartbreak”, a devastation that may influence an entire life, to be invisibly ingrained with far-reaching effects.
How you respond to these knocks and heartbreaks depends upon your resilience and perspective.
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